ilona the pest

insecurity + narcissism = awesome!

Monday, May 28, 2007

secret catfight

there's this would-be boyfriend-stealing girl i hate.

but she hates me more, 'cause i win. :)


  • At 3:33 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    what do you mean with the secret catfight? and how did you win?

  • At 4:35 AM, Blogger ilona said…

    how did you win?

    her ambitions were unsuccessful.

  • At 7:45 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    why would you hate her? was she after your guy and knew he was your guy?

    women always blame the other woman. I see it happen often and it is usually the man who is at fault and the anger is being displaced.

  • At 8:38 AM, Blogger ilona said…

    yes, yes, i know you're right. i should feel sorry for her -- my sister-victim of his duplicity. but still, people shouldn't go around trying to steal other people's boyfriends.

  • At 9:24 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    are you sure that the guy told this chic that you were his girlfriend? are you still together or not? i hate when guys tell girls one thing and then do another...sounds like this may be the case. this girl must be pretty hot to even catch his eye cause you look like a catch, sista...:) the dude sounds confused.

  • At 10:06 PM, Blogger stacita said…

    clock that ho!

  • At 10:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Someone I think of as pretty wise once helped me in a challenging relationship. This person told me about an ancedote of a relationship between a husband and his wife who were having issues because the men was constantly seeking attention outside of the relationship with his wife. The couple was dining at a popular restaurant. They're fighting because the man appears to be more interested in talking and staring at a beautiful woman across the room then at his own beautiful wife. The woman is going on and on about how he is paying attention to this other woman and yelling at him, etc. She gets so angry at this other woman who really has very little awareness of what is taking place between this couple (the wife's behavior is similar to a temper tantrum of a child). What this wife is missing out on awareness of is that the issue really isn't about the woman across the room. The issue is between her and her husband. People are afraid to look within themselves and deal with their own issues. It is much easier to blame and focus on something other then themselves. Good luck with your man - wish you the best and really, pay attention to yourself. That's the only think you can control and change. ;)


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